One year ago

This Friday marks a whole year since we found out we were expecting "a healthy baby" according to our doctor.  I had an appointment June 21, 2013.  Walking into that appointment I was expecting to hear that the molar pregnancy had come back and I would indeed need chemo.  The 18th I had talked to a nurse who told me my HCG had jumped to 22,000 in a month, and that there was no way it could be a normal pregnancy.  We were shocked to be staring at the ultrasound screen and watching that little heartbeat pound away.  Little did we know our precious miracle baby had already been handed his death sentence.  I was 6 weeks 5 days when I found out I was pregnant and already my baby's time with us was being counted down.  Though we were unaware of the hardship we would soon be facing.
This was supposed to be my perfect pregnancy.  We found out we were expecting the day after our daughters 4th birthday.  Then our wedding anniversary we were going to find out the sex, and my mother in law's birthday was the day before my due date.
My days flew by this week as we celebrated my daughters birthday from Thursday until now, I almost forgot what time of year this was.  Forever May-February will be marked by days where "milestones" in Emery's time with us happened.  It is a very weird way to look at a calendar, but I am thinking these dates will stick with me forever.  Today, one year ago was the day we told our families about the pregnancy.  It was our daughters birthday party and after only family was left we told them.  They were excited and wanted us to have a boy.
One year has flown by.  How has a year gone by?  A year filled with joy, and so much heartbreak.  I should be holding a 4 and a half month old baby happy, watching him learn.  Instead I am empty armed and broken hearted.  Thankfully I have a very amazing a silly girl to keep me busy and smiling on all these rough "milestone" days.